Well, there is a vast difference.
A: He was striking a happy medium.
If you lay them properly the first time around you can walk all over them for the rest of your life.
Just look for ones that have a "JOKE:" disclaimer
On Tinder.
Give them a test-tickle
and can tell them Plant Spern
On OkilyDokilyCupid
To teach women how to walk on their hind legs.